It’s October 3rd, and if you’re of a certain age, you just heard that line in Lindsay Lohan’s voice. Today is also the day Venus stations retrograde, which astrologers associate with a very Mean Girls kind of energy: revisiting old relationships, rethinking what you value, and wondering whether that ex really was as bad as you remember.
What Is Venus Retrograde?
Venus retrograde is a period when Venus appears to move backward in the sky, traditionally associated with reflection on love, relationships, money, beauty, and self-worth.
This year, Venus is retrograde from October 3 to November 13, beginning in Scorpio. Many people see it as a time to review rather than to rush into anything new.
Why Venus Retrograde Is Linked to Exes
Because retrogrades are associated with revisiting the past, Venus retrograde has a reputation for bringing old flames back into view, whether through a surprise text or a sudden wave of nostalgia. That doesn’t mean you have to reply. It may simply be an invitation to understand what that relationship taught you.
How to Move Through Venus Retrograde Gracefully
- Reflect before you reconnect. Ask what you miss: the person, or how you felt at the time.
- Hold off on big beauty changes. Astrology tradition suggests waiting on dramatic makeovers until Venus moves forward.
- Review your spending. Venus rules money, too, so it’s a good time to notice where your resources go.
- Revisit your own worth. Consider what you deserve in love, and whether you’ve been accepting less.
A Season for Looking Back With Kindness
Venus retrograde isn’t something to fear. Think of it as a few weeks to reflect on what you truly value, so the choices you make afterward feel more like you. If a past relationship is weighing on your mind, a love reading with an Everclear Advisor can offer a gentle space to sort through it.